Hi, I’m Stephanie,

Empty Mess came about because I was not adjusting very well to my new title of “Empty Nester”.  The truth is, I just wasn’t prepared for how lonely I would feel.

Why didn’t anyone tell me this empty nest thing would be so hard? I had spent years pouring all my energy and attention into being the best mom on the planet, as if it were some kind of competition. And then suddenly the race was over, it was just me and my husband…ALL THE TIME! and I was struggling to find my purpose.

I knew I had to do something.

With a lot of laughter and a few tears, I wrote my stories down. They helped me remember the happy times, the crazy times … they got me laughing again, and most of all … they helped me move on. I hope they can do the same for you.

Join me as I share my journey, discussing how embracing change, fostering creativity, and building community can transform the so-called "empty nest" into a fulfilling and vibrant stage of life. Let's explore together how every challenge can be an opportunity for growth and joy.

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Enjoy! xo, ~Stephanie 

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